Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Long Story Short...

These past few months have been intense, to say the least. I've had to do a lot of soul searching, and looking at things for what they truly are instead of how I wanted them to be. I had to make some decisions that were difficult, but ultimately were the best for me, because in the end I deserved better. It's funny how everyone around you tells you what you can't see, but in time it becomes so clear....

I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt, and look for the good, even when it's bad...

After all the drama, I am so at peace with my decision. Actually, I feel amazing. I have learned that one, I will never compromise my self worth, nor morals, and two, I will be very selective with whom I work with. Many times, people enter your life having ulterior motifs, and I will now pay close attention to those who enter my life, as I have already rid myself of those who had ulterior motifs! 

The greatest thing is I have such a wonderful, loving, support system that is there for me no matter what... and that's what matters at the end of the day!




  1. It's great to see the good in people and remain optimistic, Miss Dessa. The thing is, though, you have to balance the optimism with the reality of the situation. Continue to see the good ...but don't ignore the bad.

    From the sounds of it, it seems like you're finding that balance, babe.

  2. I will also pay close attention to those who are in my life.

    If you read my last post ( Envy) you can found the reason.

    Nice blog I will come back if you don't mind.


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